Change..

Why are people afraid of change or changing? Just when something different or new happens, the biggest of sleepers become the most active of skeptics. There are doubts created, fingers pointed at, conspiracy theories mooted, the list is endless.

I keep wondering all along about this aspect. This is not only obvious when change happens around you, but also obvious with this so-called MANTRA of this generation - "Don't change me, accept me the way I am" or "I don't want to change just to accommodate somebody/something else".

I think it's good to change, especially when you have done something wrong, and you know it's root cause. It's absolute pig-headed stupidity if you end up doing something wrong on all counts, and you don't want to change the way you are, just because YOU ARE the way YOU ARE.

It pays to change - especially when you listen, understand and feel what's happening around you. Change is just a function of life - you get along with change. You just keep learning all the darn time, you assimilate change, make it part of you and become a better person. You don't repeat the mistakes, you GROW UP.

Never be averse to change around you or inside you.

-V